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		<title>Comment on Working moms blamed for &#8220;Le&#8221; Big Mac by Robert Graham</title>
		<link>http://www.evetahmincioglu.com/web/blog/2009/07/02/working-moms-blamed-for-le-big-mac/#comment-302316</link>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jul 2009 00:05:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I have to interject a colossal battle of those who are ancient and are living amongst us to tell us WE, the eat right with good food crap that has been shoved down our throats for so long we are like robots. If you go into a supermarket, or that natural food store, I dare, I double dare, in fact I'd make a wager that that if it comes from the ground, it is most assuredly ORGANIC. It is all the same. Yet some absolutely absurd and senseless consumers will pay more for ORGANICALLY grown produce. I will be the very best parent in the world and I will feed and have fed my children, all six of them, good food and quite a bit of it grown from the earth. I'll use a stick of butter, a whole cabbage cut up and two good onions and some green pepper and fry it all up with EGG noodles. My kids love it,it is HALUSKI. I know for a fact it is in heaven, it has to be..or I won't go. The same can be said of perogies and stuffed cabbage. Does anyone have the balls to call the 'Correct' Police to take away my well fed children? Not in America you won't. 

And my children may be just like I hope to be, just like  my grandparents were who lived to be 86 and 95, smoking two packs of cigarettes a day and breathing in all the bad air of prosperity from the mills aroung Pittsburgh. You could say that they were a fluke. WEll there are millions of flukes out there who will tell you to your face, you might outlive your children because the abuse starts with feeding them RIGHT food. 

Billy Mays came from Mckees Rocks. A mill town 5 miles from Pittsburgh. He used to be a fat man. St. Mary's on McKees Rocks was filled with his relatives. Every relative, including his 70+ year old mother is as nice as i can put it,,FAT. He dies at 50 from HEART DISEASE after a group of television people decided he had to be fit and trim. How many funerals of fat pepole have you actually attended? He is gone, dead and buried and he was buried by a bunch of fat people. 

We are perfect machines. God made us that way. We are designed to eat and work. You have to move your whole body to burn off calories. If you or your children are too tired from malnutrition, what good is it? 

The Pittsburgh Steelers are Super Bowl Champions. THey train at St. Vincents College in LaTrobe Pa., about 40 miles SW of Pittsburgh. I once engaged a cook who feeds the Steelers. I asked him hw many eggs do they eat for breakfast, He said he was not sure and that the team as a limit of 10 eggs at a time. I asked him who eats ten eggs?. He said All of them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to interject a colossal battle of those who are ancient and are living amongst us to tell us WE, the eat right with good food crap that has been shoved down our throats for so long we are like robots. If you go into a supermarket, or that natural food store, I dare, I double dare, in fact I&#8217;d make a wager that that if it comes from the ground, it is most assuredly ORGANIC. It is all the same. Yet some absolutely absurd and senseless consumers will pay more for ORGANICALLY grown produce. I will be the very best parent in the world and I will feed and have fed my children, all six of them, good food and quite a bit of it grown from the earth. I&#8217;ll use a stick of butter, a whole cabbage cut up and two good onions and some green pepper and fry it all up with EGG noodles. My kids love it,it is HALUSKI. I know for a fact it is in heaven, it has to be..or I won&#8217;t go. The same can be said of perogies and stuffed cabbage. Does anyone have the balls to call the &#8216;Correct&#8217; Police to take away my well fed children? Not in America you won&#8217;t. </p>
<p>And my children may be just like I hope to be, just like  my grandparents were who lived to be 86 and 95, smoking two packs of cigarettes a day and breathing in all the bad air of prosperity from the mills aroung Pittsburgh. You could say that they were a fluke. WEll there are millions of flukes out there who will tell you to your face, you might outlive your children because the abuse starts with feeding them RIGHT food. </p>
<p>Billy Mays came from Mckees Rocks. A mill town 5 miles from Pittsburgh. He used to be a fat man. St. Mary&#8217;s on McKees Rocks was filled with his relatives. Every relative, including his 70+ year old mother is as nice as i can put it,,FAT. He dies at 50 from HEART DISEASE after a group of television people decided he had to be fit and trim. How many funerals of fat pepole have you actually attended? He is gone, dead and buried and he was buried by a bunch of fat people. </p>
<p>We are perfect machines. God made us that way. We are designed to eat and work. You have to move your whole body to burn off calories. If you or your children are too tired from malnutrition, what good is it? </p>
<p>The Pittsburgh Steelers are Super Bowl Champions. THey train at St. Vincents College in LaTrobe Pa., about 40 miles SW of Pittsburgh. I once engaged a cook who feeds the Steelers. I asked him hw many eggs do they eat for breakfast, He said he was not sure and that the team as a limit of 10 eggs at a time. I asked him who eats ten eggs?. He said All of them.
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		<title>Comment on Working moms blamed for &#8220;Le&#8221; Big Mac by telleve</title>
		<link>http://www.evetahmincioglu.com/web/blog/2009/07/02/working-moms-blamed-for-le-big-mac/#comment-302231</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 17:25:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>hey MB,
i love that you're taking your son to french bistros. exposure is how you get kids interested in good food...that's the job of both parents!

and there is something to us working too much so we can attain material goods. we not only miss out on great food, but everything that's so precious in life.

and yes, almost everyone struggles with their weight. but good, natural foods are usually better for us and keep us thinner than processed foods, no?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey MB,<br />
i love that you&#8217;re taking your son to french bistros. exposure is how you get kids interested in good food&#8230;that&#8217;s the job of both parents!</p>
<p>and there is something to us working too much so we can attain material goods. we not only miss out on great food, but everything that&#8217;s so precious in life.</p>
<p>and yes, almost everyone struggles with their weight. but good, natural foods are usually better for us and keep us thinner than processed foods, no?
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		<title>Comment on Rolling Resume: USING YOUR RIDE TO FIND A JOB by Mike</title>
		<link>http://www.evetahmincioglu.com/web/blog/2009/07/01/your-ride-as-free-job-billboard-for-yourself/#comment-301914</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 01:01:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>It's great to see somebody "thinking outside the box."
I know that statement is cliche but I can't think of anything more appropriate. There are millions of people searching for jobs the traditional way and finding nothing based on reports in the media.
Good luck and keep up the great attitude, I'm sure it will pay off in the end.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s great to see somebody &#8220;thinking outside the box.&#8221;<br />
I know that statement is cliche but I can&#8217;t think of anything more appropriate. There are millions of people searching for jobs the traditional way and finding nothing based on reports in the media.<br />
Good luck and keep up the great attitude, I&#8217;m sure it will pay off in the end.
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		<title>Comment on Working moms blamed for &#8220;Le&#8221; Big Mac by Robert Graham</title>
		<link>http://www.evetahmincioglu.com/web/blog/2009/07/02/working-moms-blamed-for-le-big-mac/#comment-301883</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 23:51:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>One serious misconception about the French and French woman in particular is simply this, during the occupation of France by the Nazi's, there existed tremendous changes in French culture forced upon the population by the Germans and the French military government. France had been an extremely liberal and well fed country prior to this. In fact, it was actually thought of as being far desireable by French men to have larger woman.

During the four year occupation, food become scarce to all residents of France. By the time the Allies freed France, a majority of men were either imprisoned or dead. By this time, the whole population were frail. And very hungry. The Fench were always sexually progressive. Many of the good servicemen who then occupied their country enjoyed the affections of their gratitude. For the severly sexually surpressed american GI, this was the best experience of their adult life. The slender, mal-nourished woman become more of a 'turn-on' for the especially the Americans. 

If you do not believe me, go ahead and do an internet search for pornography especially in the early 20th century up ubtil after WWII.  You will find almost all the models are gigantic by comparison to today's slender, mal-nourished model.  

I am not comparing todays current health craze that is more driven by an inability to process the foods we like to eat more tha anything else. However, show me an octgenarian who who says that they have never struggled with maintaining weight.  you might be surprised to find out everyone does.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One serious misconception about the French and French woman in particular is simply this, during the occupation of France by the Nazi&#8217;s, there existed tremendous changes in French culture forced upon the population by the Germans and the French military government. France had been an extremely liberal and well fed country prior to this. In fact, it was actually thought of as being far desireable by French men to have larger woman.</p>
<p>During the four year occupation, food become scarce to all residents of France. By the time the Allies freed France, a majority of men were either imprisoned or dead. By this time, the whole population were frail. And very hungry. The Fench were always sexually progressive. Many of the good servicemen who then occupied their country enjoyed the affections of their gratitude. For the severly sexually surpressed american GI, this was the best experience of their adult life. The slender, mal-nourished woman become more of a &#8216;turn-on&#8217; for the especially the Americans. </p>
<p>If you do not believe me, go ahead and do an internet search for pornography especially in the early 20th century up ubtil after WWII.  You will find almost all the models are gigantic by comparison to today&#8217;s slender, mal-nourished model.  </p>
<p>I am not comparing todays current health craze that is more driven by an inability to process the foods we like to eat more tha anything else. However, show me an octgenarian who who says that they have never struggled with maintaining weight.  you might be surprised to find out everyone does.
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		<title>Comment on Rolling Resume: USING YOUR RIDE TO FIND A JOB by kofi</title>
		<link>http://www.evetahmincioglu.com/web/blog/2009/07/01/your-ride-as-free-job-billboard-for-yourself/#comment-301850</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 22:02:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I think the brother should come back to Ghana. There are new banks springing up everyday and with his MBA and experience, he is bound to find something.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the brother should come back to Ghana. There are new banks springing up everyday and with his MBA and experience, he is bound to find something.
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		<title>Comment on The future: Pissed off workers by Teena Rose</title>
		<link>http://www.evetahmincioglu.com/web/blog/2009/06/26/the-future-pissed-off-workers/#comment-301711</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 15:13:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Bad behavior is certainly present on both sides of the employment marriage. Employees quit abruptly without any concern for the on-going needs of the company, and employers pile on job tasks and sometimes layoff without concern for the employee. 

Responding to your point, I feel employers could make huge strides at retaining their current employment base ... if they want to, of course. And some of what can be done for employees to feel appreciated and wanted doesn't require raises, bonuses, and the like. Money is nice, don't get me wrong. But, it's not always about the coin. =]

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@teenarose</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bad behavior is certainly present on both sides of the employment marriage. Employees quit abruptly without any concern for the on-going needs of the company, and employers pile on job tasks and sometimes layoff without concern for the employee. </p>
<p>Responding to your point, I feel employers could make huge strides at retaining their current employment base &#8230; if they want to, of course. And some of what can be done for employees to feel appreciated and wanted doesn&#8217;t require raises, bonuses, and the like. Money is nice, don&#8217;t get me wrong. But, it&#8217;s not always about the coin. =]</p>
<p>Regards,<br />
@teenarose
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		<title>Comment on Working moms blamed for &#8220;Le&#8221; Big Mac by MB</title>
		<link>http://www.evetahmincioglu.com/web/blog/2009/07/02/working-moms-blamed-for-le-big-mac/#comment-301696</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 14:47:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I believe my husband and I are doing my part to develop our 8 year old son's palette for French food.  Before we went out for an adult evening to enjoy a delicious meal at a new French Bistro in Philly, my husband made our son real French Fries from scratch!  The next morning we told him all about the fantastic cuisine, and he proclaimed --- "I will never eat bunny!"</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe my husband and I are doing my part to develop our 8 year old son&#8217;s palette for French food.  Before we went out for an adult evening to enjoy a delicious meal at a new French Bistro in Philly, my husband made our son real French Fries from scratch!  The next morning we told him all about the fantastic cuisine, and he proclaimed &#8212; &#8220;I will never eat bunny!&#8221;
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		<title>Comment on Working moms blamed for &#8220;Le&#8221; Big Mac by HikingStick</title>
		<link>http://www.evetahmincioglu.com/web/blog/2009/07/02/working-moms-blamed-for-le-big-mac/#comment-301672</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 13:48:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Let me stick my neck out a bit and suggest that it is not working women per se, but rather a culture that values discontent more than contentment (i.e., the "I must have more" mentality) which pushes us to poorer choices regarding many things, including food.

I'm not suggesting that a lack of contentment is what drives women to the workplace.  No.  Many women seek education and career to have a sense of purpose and contribution that they otherwise might feel lacking.  Many also want to experience the same level of financial independence that was long only available to men.  I believe that this lack of contentment (in our material condition and level of income) drives both men and women to work more for gain at a cost to their personal lives.  In some cases, the exchanges are obvious (e.g., 60-80 hour work weeks among some climbing the corporate ladder), but in some, like changes to our eating habits, they are less so.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let me stick my neck out a bit and suggest that it is not working women per se, but rather a culture that values discontent more than contentment (i.e., the &#8220;I must have more&#8221; mentality) which pushes us to poorer choices regarding many things, including food.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not suggesting that a lack of contentment is what drives women to the workplace.  No.  Many women seek education and career to have a sense of purpose and contribution that they otherwise might feel lacking.  Many also want to experience the same level of financial independence that was long only available to men.  I believe that this lack of contentment (in our material condition and level of income) drives both men and women to work more for gain at a cost to their personal lives.  In some cases, the exchanges are obvious (e.g., 60-80 hour work weeks among some climbing the corporate ladder), but in some, like changes to our eating habits, they are less so.
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		<title>Comment on Swine flu can&#8217;t just take a day off by telleve</title>
		<link>http://www.evetahmincioglu.com/web/blog/2009/04/28/swine-flu-cant-just-take-a-day-off/#comment-301128</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 18:11:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Hello Carrie,
It all depends what kind of relationship you have with your employer. If you have a contract, or are in a union, there may be specific guidelines on how such days off would be handled.
If you have no contract, and you are forced to stay home for only a few days, or week, you may have no recourse at all. If you have sick days, or vacation days, or personal days, you may be asked to use those. But they are not obligated to pay you if you are not at work. There is no mandatory pay for people who take sick days, or who take days off to care for family members.
I'm sorry about this.
Keep in mind, I'm writing generally here because I don't know the details of your situation. If you have more questions, or want to discuss the specifics of your situation email me at telleve@gmail.com.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Carrie,<br />
It all depends what kind of relationship you have with your employer. If you have a contract, or are in a union, there may be specific guidelines on how such days off would be handled.<br />
If you have no contract, and you are forced to stay home for only a few days, or week, you may have no recourse at all. If you have sick days, or vacation days, or personal days, you may be asked to use those. But they are not obligated to pay you if you are not at work. There is no mandatory pay for people who take sick days, or who take days off to care for family members.<br />
I&#8217;m sorry about this.<br />
Keep in mind, I&#8217;m writing generally here because I don&#8217;t know the details of your situation. If you have more questions, or want to discuss the specifics of your situation email me at <a href="mailto:telleve@gmail.com.">telleve@gmail.com.</a>
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		<title>Comment on Swine flu can&#8217;t just take a day off by Carrie Garfinkel</title>
		<link>http://www.evetahmincioglu.com/web/blog/2009/04/28/swine-flu-cant-just-take-a-day-off/#comment-301117</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 17:47:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Can an employer force you to stay home because a family member is ill with the flu? If so, are they responsible for pay?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can an employer force you to stay home because a family member is ill with the flu? If so, are they responsible for pay?
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