If you don’t have a job you should try to show off your skills. For example, if you want to be a writer you should make a comic to put in the newspaper. A job manger could see it and higher you as a writer. If you don’t get a job by showing off your skills you should go and e-mail a person who runs the job you want. Maybe you could schedule an interview. Or maybe the manager just likes the way you think when you e-mail him or her. If you don’t have luck finding a job you should practice for that job. So if you run into someone who works for the job you want you will be able to show off some of your work.
Now if you want to be a painter I have a tricky idea for you. Bring a canvas to an area were there is a cool scene and other people. Take out your paints and brush and get to work painting the scene. Other people will see you and maybe if your art is good enough you could get famous for it. Or if you don’t like painting scenes you could ask someone if you could paint them. Then they just might put it in their house so when people see it in their house so when people come to see it they can talk about to their friends and make a chain. You can get a good job in the painting business that way.
I decided to let my 10-year-old daughter Circe do my job today. Why? Because I’ve lost it. Well, I’m actually trying to make a point.
Glenn Duffy, an air traffic controller at one of the world’s busiest airpots New York’s John F. Kennedy Airport, brought his son to work last month and actually let the kid take over the controls.
This from CBS news:
“JetBlue (garbled) 171 clear for takeoff,” came the voice of the boy.
“Clear for takeoff, JetBlue 171,” came the pilot’s cheerful reply.
“Amex 403 contact departure. Adios,” the boy said.
“Contact departure, Aeromexico 423. Adios,” the Aeromexico pilot replied.
In fact the boy was lauded by some of the seemingly amused pilots.
“JetBlue 171 contact departure,” the boy said.
The JetBlue pilot’s reply: “Over to departures Jetblue 171. Awesome job!”
Yes, this is cute, but was it a wise career move?
Turns out Duffy, along with his supervisor, were suspended yesterday for the bring-your-son-to-work-and-let-him-do-your-work day episode.
This from the Federal Aviation Administration:
“This lapse in judgment not only violated FAA’s own policies, but common sense standards for professional conduct. These kinds of distractions are totally unacceptable,” said FAA Administrator Randy Babbitt. “We have an incredible team of professionals who safely control our nation’s skies every single day. This kind of behavior does not reflect the true caliber of our workforce.”
This morning, I’ve been pondering if it was truly a horrible occurrence or if this is just another overreaction of our recent times.
Clearly, my daughter writing a blog would not lead to lives being lost. Maybe someone would get mad at me because they took her advice and it didn’t work, but death, probably not.
Duffy appears to be a father proud of his work and proud of his son. Supposedly he had trained him to do the commands for some time and was showing the kid off.
I’ve always been an advocate of parents sharing their jobs with their kids. It helps them gain an appreciation for work at a young age, and gives them some insight into their parents.
I remember sitting on the cutting table of the fur factory my father ran in New York when I was a little kid. I definitely played with the razor cutters that were all around me. But he never let me actually cut anything, other than paper in his office. The experience didn’t make me want to go into manufacturing, and I ended up with a life-long dislike of fur coats. But you better believe I understood my dad a bit better knowing what he did everyday.
Duffy wanted to share his career with his son. But did he go to far?
Here are some final thoughts from Circe, aka, little CareerDiva:
If your still having trouble finding a job you could always try to find a friend who works for the place you want to work for and see if they can make an interview with the manager. You should always keep trying and never give up.
March 4th, 2010 at 10:48 am
They talking heads are saying that this was “bad judgment” on the behalf of the controller. It has come out that the boy only talked to plans on the ground that were prepping to for takeoff. It seems he was never giving instructions to planes in the air. I do believe this was an overreaction.
There’s one probable outcome from this: I doubt the boy will ever want to be an aircraft controller. Wow! Talk about giving the boy a negative impression.
I think such visits are of tremendous value, and it seems (my assumption based on current information) that the controller and his superviser had put limits in place to prevent the boy’s presence from being a problem. Such experiences can help excite kids about possible careers, and should be encouragd so long as the participation bears no real risk.
March 4th, 2010 at 11:50 am
Be careful Eve because Circe has proven to be steep competition for your blog — and she has the whole job search process down!!! Great job Circe!
March 4th, 2010 at 12:48 pm
Yeah, I think it’s an over-reaction. I’m sure he was there talking the kid through it the whole time (just a few minutes really) and if he was only talking to planes on the ground, then it really is fine. I think a couple folks got upset and no one wanted to be the one to say, “eh, this really isn’t that big a deal.” I feel bad for the guy.
March 4th, 2010 at 1:07 pm
What’s happened to us? Everything is a dangerous hazard today. Why are we all so afraid of everything? Remember when we were kids and we could walk around the block by ourselves?
March 4th, 2010 at 1:23 pm
I don’t think it was an over-reaction. To begin with, it should have been cleared by the supervisor’s superiors. Maybe they could have arranged for something off official ATC network/radio. The disorganization is what alarms me the most - not the action itself. Would you want your heart surgeon’s comic-book reading kid assisting in your bypass? Heck no. Having him sit in on a consult? Sure. There is something to be said for professionalism.
I also feel sorry for the guy, but he was playing with fire. Surely the question as to whether or not this could possibly pose a risk (either safety or publicity related ) ran through someone’s head - and they still made an error in judgement.
March 4th, 2010 at 1:27 pm
You go girl! You too Eve.
March 4th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
Hey, some parents still give their kids a lot of freedom. My toddlers are required to stay in the yard or with an older sibling. The young elementary kids can visit the park across the street and go anywhere in town with an older brother or sister. Then, depending on the maturity of the child, once they hit about age 10 they get to know the words “be back in time for supper” during the summer months. They have full roam of the town, and are just required to give us an idea of where they will be. I believe it makes the kids more well adjusted, more accustomed to dealing with adults in other situations, and independent of their mother and me when scheduling their days and planning their activities. It’s great practice for adulthood and independence!
March 4th, 2010 at 1:45 pm
Circe, great job writing this article! Your advice is timeless. As for the Air Traffic Controller and his son, I think everyone is making a big deal out of nothing. It wasn’t like the kid was up there by him self.
March 4th, 2010 at 2:06 pm
This was an error in judgement and very unprofessional. It is one thing to let your child write something on your blog or an article you are publishing. It is another to put him on the radio during work hours…this is completely irresponsible. I have children too, but there are limitations we should abide by. Sorry, I vote no on this one. In a small airport, it might fly…(excuse the pun), but not in New York! I totally agree with the FAA policies; air traffic controllers have a serious job and it should be treated with respect and professionalism at all times.
March 4th, 2010 at 5:04 pm
First of all, Circe did a great job on your blog. She touched on many pertinent points job seekers should follow when searching for a job. She has advised your readers to be assertive, prepared and creative. She also highlights one of the most frequent ways people do eventually land that great “seat” - networking!!!
As far as the Air Traffic Controller issue. I am really conflicted with this one. I definitely think that the press has gone overboard (one news program this morning also questioned the severity of this situation - I think it was Fox). I totally value the experience children get from going to work with their parents (I too used to go into my Father’s office on Saturdays and “help” him out - he was a dentist). The problem is that the situation was RECORDED and we should all know by now that anything that goes on tape (audio or video) quickly becomes public domain (Sen. John Edwards can certainly attest to that). I don’t believe that anyone was at any time in danger. I believe this man is proud of his job and his family and wanted to share with his children what he does every day of his life.
Not to change the subject but EVE - have you Blogged about the firing of the entire staff of that High School in Rhode Island??? Wow - Talk about “Teacher Bashing”!!! Really, so what if there was a higher absenteeism rate among staff and faculty. So what if the graduation rate was dismal. Even President Obama backed the firing!! So why all of the fuss? The demonstrations? The Unions now in an uproar over Obama’s support of the firings? When Wall Street does it under the title of “Mass Layoffs” I don’t hear anyone crying!
March 4th, 2010 at 5:51 pm
OK Christina, I didn’t see a cleaning house of top leaders on Wall Street en masse. This is another sign of how you can stick it to the little guys, and gals..largely gals in this case I might add.
It’s easy to fire all the women teachers. There is more going on than these teachers being absent. The education system at large has lots of problems. Just firing all the women that give their blood, sweat and tears to that school doesn’t suddenly make all those problems go away.
March 4th, 2010 at 9:03 pm
I think one reason why people are so dramatic is because of law suits. People sue for the most ridiculous things and companies are afraid of being liable for something most of us would consider minor. Our laws on suing people need to change, its so easy for someone to do it and walk away even if they don’t win.
March 8th, 2010 at 10:33 am
Great job, Circe! You’ve got some terrific ideas!
I think the air traffic controller was wrong. There’s a time and a place for “Look what my cute kid can do”, but live air traffic control is not it. Was there an overreaction? Yes, but with today’s news coverage, that’s no surprise. They had a sound byte.