toilet.jpgI reprimanded my six-year-old son this morning because he did not flush the toilet.

The way I see it, this is one of the many building blocks I am giving him so he can go out and be a productive citizen some day.

“Flush the toilet.” “Don’t hit your sister with a Hot Wheel.” “Don’t lie.” “Don’t steal.” “Don’t send incriminating emails that could someday come back to haunt you.”

So what the heck did the parents of Matthew Tannin and Ralph Cioffi teach them?

Tannin and Cioffi are two former hedge-fund managers for Bear Stearns were arrested today. Supposedly, these two men knew their fund was “toast” but they still painted a rosy picture of the funds to investors. Investors ended up losing $1.6 billion.

Here are photos of Tannin and Cioffi:tannin.jpgcioffi.jpg

It’s not a new story. This type of scam has happened at other firms. We all remember Enron. Executives saying everything is okay when clearly everything is not.

This morning, disgusted with yet another one of these situations, I look back and wonder, how were these men raised? My mom would say, “they were raised by wolves.”

Since we know that’s not the case, I figured I’d ask an ethics expert on whether these acts point to something amiss in a person’s upbringing.

Am I nuts to even consider this?

“No,” James Otteson, professor of philosophy and economics at Yeshiva College in New York, assures me.

Children, he says, need to develop a “deep sense of how their actions affect other people.”

This is not natural for human beings, he explains, so parents have to keep drumming this into their kids’ head, making it a habit to put yourself in someone else’s shoes, along the lines of, “What does Johnny think when you do that?” “Imagine what Johnny would feel.”

Without this basic empathy building block, it’s easy for individuals to do bad things without thinking about how their actions will impact others.

When you combine this attitude with the general predatory environment in certain areas of the business world today, he says, you have a lethal combination.

These hedge fund managers and corporate executives are dealing with ridiculous amounts of money, so they may begin to see investors as “tools, or pieces on a chess board they’re just moving around.”

We need to all get in the habit of thinking every day how our actions trickle down. Remember the circle of yelling theory? When you yell the people you yell at end up yelling, and so on and so on and so on.

The alleged actions of Tannin and Cioffi may have indirectly hurt thousands of individuals who lost lots of money and are now struggling to keep their homes, their lifestyles.

They were also stupid, it seems. The two guys actually corresponded via email about how the fund was in crummy shape several days before they told investors they were “quite comfortable” with the fund’s stability.

What were they thinking?

For a moment I started thinking we should all be more philosophical every day.

But then I started researching Tannin and Cioffi’s background and found out that Tannin actually had this foundation.

He was a Preston Warren scholar in philosophy at Bucknell University many years ago before heading for Wall Street.

I’m not kidding folks.

Here’s a definition of the prize from the University’s website:

The W. Preston Warren Prize, endowed by friends in honor of Professor Warren, for 26 years a distinguished professor of philosophy at Bucknell, is awarded to that senior majoring in philosophy who shows the greatest achievement and promise in philosophy.

Unfortunately, it appears it was all promise and no achievement for Tannin.

I guess he never learned early on to flush the toilet.

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