It’s one of those abyss workdays, when you don’t really get anything done but you’re stuck at your desk anyway. It’s the day before the Labor Day holiday and about 99 percent of workers have already punched out…at least in their minds. A friend of mine who’s a high-powered attorney in Boston just IMed me that she brought her son to work today. I asked her, “what if you get a call on a high-powered case?”. She said, “I already did. It went OK. He’s bored,” she added about her son. It’s the type of day few people take seriously. But I’ve got lots of work to do. All the calls I’ve made today for a story I’m working on have not been returned. It seems people are cleaning their desks, or starting martini lunches at 10:30 a.m., or hanging with their sons. My daughter, for some unknown reasons, did not have school today. It’s the kind of day that takes working parents by surprise. Usually there are parents who are aware of the day off, but for some reason I’m always the last to know. I guess it was on the holiday calendar that the school gave us. But that came home with 40 other pieces of paper and I had barely enough time to cook dinner that night. As if they know there are many of us bewildered parents out there, the school sent home a little piece of paper Thursday telling us there would be no school Friday and Monday…meaning, “dummy, don’t take your kid to the bus stop Friday morning because no one will be there.” So the scramble began, Thursday night. Where would the kids go? (I also have a 4-year-old son whose daycare hasn’t even opened yet) Thank goodness for my in-laws who came through in a pinch and agreed to watch the kiddies.
September 1st, 2006 at 12:11 pm
You reminded me of the first days of school and all the paperwork PARENTS have to do. Homework was supposed to end for us at some point. I do not look forward to it year after year after year, especially when they are asking for the same things over and over and over. And it seems that most schools dont save the info year after year. I mean, are your kids names likely to change? No. Birthdates? No. Their parents names? No. Their pediatrician name? No. Their adresses? Maybe but likely No. So please, please please do not ask me for this info year after year after year.
On the issue of high-powered attorneys who answer important calls in the presence of their children…wow. Does’t this lawyer know that she is violating the confidentiality rights of her clients by discussing sensitive issues in front of someone else? She should probably be fired. Doesn’t sound too bright. Eve, pick your friends more wisely, ok?
October 5th, 2006 at 10:29 am
Just a note on that lawyer confidentiality thing. My kids are a part of negotiations that go on after work hours. They are part of the sphere of my office, since I conduct most of that at home while they do homework. It is amazing what we as moms do to keep all balls in the air.
Many a successful case has been handled in the middle of dinner prep and spelling test review. Let’s see the high powered male juggle that many balls at the same time. My husband can’t walk and chew gum at the same time, let alone get homework dinner and work done at once. Hurray for the multi-tasking mom.